Question about connecting this server

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I'm really sad about connecting this server from my home country, the banana republic of germany...
I think I can count all successful connects in a month on one hand.

So is this a personal problem, or how does it look like with other germans?
Is this a problem of T-Online?

Don't like to be thrown out by idleness, but what should I do?
No connect, no post and no cooperation...